It’s December. Christmas is steadily approaching (less than two weeks, y’all!). We’re pretty much smack-dab in the middle of Advent. Gift buying is in full swing, and the stress of it all climbs daily until its zenith later this month.
How’s it going in my family?
Well, in our house this year, Advent is about getting the chocolate out of the “Advent” calendar, and that’s about it. There is nothing overtly spiritual or Christian about it.
And I’m really OK with that. Honestly, that’s about all we have energy for.
Yes, I’m the same guy that wrote an Advent devotional/guide that got published by Lexham Press that scads of people use for devotions over Advent.
I’m here to say that your family doesn’t have to do the same things the same way every year. You don’t.
There aren’t rules here, and there isn’t a right or wrong way to do Christmas and/or Advent with your family.
We don’t need to worry about whether or not a coffee cup says “Happy Holidays” or “Merry Christmas.” Heck, you can celebrate Hanukkah, or Kwanzaa, or even Festivus if you want to. It’s OK. Really. Go on with your feats of strength and airing of grievances, if you must.
Or skip the whole thing and take a break and a big, long, nap. Seriously. (This option sounds especially good to me right now.)
Here’s the important thing: Where are you with Jesus? Is he your Savior? Do you know it?
It doesn’t matter if you do the right “Christian” thing, or read the right Bible verses each night, or go to Christmas Eve service, or whatever. You don’t need to have a nativity scene set up in your house to proclaim your holiness. If you want a disco ball instead of a star or angel on the top of your tree, it’s OK.
What matters? What matters is who you think Jesus is, what you think he accomplished, and what role he plays in your life.